THE AIROLA DIET: COMPLEMENTING YOUR BASIC HEALTH-BUILDING FOODS WITH MILK
Posted on Jun 03, 2010 under General health | No CommentCHILD’S HEALTH/SKIN DISORDERS: ABRASIONS
Posted on May 21, 2009 under General health | No CommentAbrasion is a general term given to an injury such as a graze, scratch or cut. These are a common occurrence in childhood, and if not severe can usually be treated at home.
Treatment
Clean all sores immediately with running water to remove dirt. Clean the surrounding skin with clean gauze or a handtowel soaked in water. Do not use cotton wool as this can leave fibres in the wound. Always wipe away from the wound — never wipe from the surrounding skin towards the wound. Use a diluted antiseptic solution to clean the sore — this will sting, but you need to persist with its use in order to prevent infection. Then cover the sore with a sterile, non-stick dressing. If the wound is bleeding, apply firm pressure for 10 minutes.
When to see your doctor
• if the abrasion is deep and does not stop bleeding despite firm pressure;
• if there is a lot of dirt, gravel, or pieces of wood, metal or glass in the abrasion;
• if it is a large abrasion with rough or jagged edges;
• if you are unsure whether your child is up to date with his tetanus immunisation.
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SENIOR CITIZEN SEX EDUCATION: THE MOST OFTEN ASKED SENIOR SEX QUESTIONS
Posted on May 18, 2009 under General health | No Comment ”I notice that I don’t have as much of an erection as I used
to. Isn’t that just aging?”
The quality of erections changes throughout the life. Usually, good health, good exercise, good diet, low stress, no drugs or alcohol, and an interested and interesting partner are the best guarantee that you will have whatever genital reflex the body can have. Remember, though, the erection of the penis or clitoris is not necessary for a fulfilling sex life. It is not the measure of enjoyment, only blood flow. That changes through life, so erections change.
”Same thing for men? Can we keep it going?”
Absolutely. There may be less ejaculate, less pressure at ejaculation, different contraction sensations, less frequent and less firm erections, but psychasms and orgasms continue. All health habits should continue through life, and that includes sex. Not only does aging not stop sex or sex interest and arousal, but some of the changes that come with aging can be slowed by remaining sexually active, either alone or with a partner.
”Doesn’t a woman lose her ability, though? She gets old
down there.”
We get old everywhere. A woman might notice less lubrication in her vagina and some pain when stimulated genitally, so adding lubrication can help. The ability to have orgasm and certainly psychasm is not affected. Some of the genital reflexes and the contraction of the muscles in the pelvic area might feel differently than years ago, but different doesn’t mean less. It is just plain myth and ageist attitudes that view sex as decreasing with the aging process.
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YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/WIVES’ SEXUALITY: TYPES OF “SEXUAL” WIFE
Posted on May 18, 2009 under General health | No CommentI offered twelve types of husbands derived from the interviews. These were provided for discussion and for the fun of reviewing stereotypes that can emerge from a limited view of sex. Compare these twelve wife categories with the twelve husband categories. As I suggested in super marital sex opportunity number six, try to “match them up,” try to see those times when you and your spouse might have been acting out roles assigned by “sexpec-tations” rather than enjoying the opportunity for “sharegasms.”
1. The Helpee
I know that if I’m happy, he’s happy. God knows, I try to be happy. I try to respond in the way he wants, but I have to work on my groans a little more.
WIFE
This is the wife who feels that her role is to be the responder, to react in the sex-manual-predicted ways to the husband’s sexual ministrations. It seems from my work with couples that ministration is far more dangerous to sexual fulfillment than masturbation. She feels that her sexual response is a measure of her husband’s effectiveness rather than her own self-representation.
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2. The Hounded
I love to hug and hug him hard, but when I do, he always gets harder than my hug. If I don’t want sex, I just don’t hug.
WIFE
This is the wife who feels that any sign of tenderness may be the overture to sex rather than an expression of love. Some wives felt that they had to monitor their expressions of feelings and touching for fear they would set off a chain reaction.
3. The Faker
I’ve never had an orgasm, but I’ll bet I fake it better than it actually is. It could never be as good as I make it look.
WIFE
-This is the wife who has learned to pretend. Feeling that her husband will not be fulfilled until she is fulfilled, she has learned to act rather than experience, to try rather than be. While there is nothing wrong with a little drama and acting in sexual encounters, faking it to “get it done” ultimately destroys any hope of intimate sexual communication.
4. The Hurrier
Someday, someday, I hope we can really take some time with this. I can get off quick, but it seems that I am trying to get off more than trying to enjoy us making love.
WIFE
This wife who is capable of extensive and fulfilling sexual response but rushes herself for the sake of time. She may feel that her husband is tiring, is struggling to control his ejaculation, which he has defined as his orgasm, or is becoming bored or anxious to get on with it. As a result she pushes herself to early and abbreviated sexual response.
5. The Piece
I feel like a piece of ass, just a piece. It’s funny how men are hunks, large hunks, and we are pieces, small pieces. We are diminished even in size.
WIFE
This wife feels that her husband is making love to someone, but not necessarily her. She feels that she represents “a woman” more than her “self.” She does not feel valued as a person but needed as a sexual outlet.
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THE DESEXUALIZATION OF THE AMERICAN MARRIAGE/WAY TO LEAVE YOUR LOVING: “IF THIS IS SATURDAY, WE’LL PROBABLY DO IT” – DOCTOR’S PRACTISE
Posted on May 18, 2009 under General health | No Comment One of the husbands in my sample complained in a therapy session, “She just got heavy. Same old person, only a heavier version. How can I get turned on by her?”
When I responded that he was responsible for his own arousal, not merely reactive to a body image, he became angry. “Why do I need a partner, then? I can just get myself turned on.”
“It’s a system,” I responded. “You affect her, she affects you, and so it goes. You broke the chain when you declared her the sole source of your sexual feelings. Instead of asking why she is heavier, you might ask yourself about the qualities that lead to your arousal. Are you still able to see the whole, the total person? Do you want her thinner for you, for her, or for the two of you? Are you with her in this struggle of weight, or just an appraiser of final outcome? Are you aware of her or just her body?”
“You mean like my feelings that she is the mother of my children, the person who helped me through my heart attack, the person who tolerates my immaturity, and stuff like that? Okay … but that’s not sex,” he responded, “I mean it is not really sexual or a turn-on or anything.”
This husband is mistaken. Change and adaptation in marriage hinge on broadening our reactions to one another, not depending on predetermined, culturally determined standards. The stimulation comes from within the system, not from skin and bones and their respective arrangement. The question is, Does your relationship turn you on, not does someone or something turn you on. This emphasis equalizes responsibility for arousal.
If we cling to a search for newness, uniqueness, compliance by our partner to ever-changing external cultural standards of “sexiness,” we miss one of the greatest opportunities that marriage provides: the familiarity of communication on levels beyond the see-and-touch world.
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OSTEOPOROSIS – HORMONES
Posted on May 15, 2009 under General health | No CommentWith the onset of the menopause, there is a reduction in the amount of circulating oestrogen, the main female hormone. It is this lack of oestrogen which is responsible for the symptoms associated with the menopause, such as hot flushes and drying up of the normal vaginal secretions.
Giving oestrogen supplements to women at the menopause may reduce these symptoms and may prevent the development of osteoporosis.
Osteoporosis may occur as a secondary problem due to some other disorder. There are four parathyroid glands and they lie half-buried in and behind the thyroid gland in the neck. They are concerned with the calcium metabolism of the body.
Over-activity of these glands, particularly due to the development of a tumor in them, can lead to an excess loss of calcium from the body through the kidneys.
This can result in the development of kidney stones and to osteoporosis. Other endocrine gland disturbances involving the thyroid or the adrenal glands may also lead to osteoporosis.
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COLLAGEN DISEASES – PROGRESSIVE SYSTEMIC SCLEROSIS
Posted on May 15, 2009 under General health | No CommentScleroderma or Progressive Systemic Sclerosis is another of the collagen diseases. It is characterised by an increase in the collagen fibres of connective tissue which leads to obliteration of small arteries.
It usually starts in the skin but may later spread to other organs. The digestive tract, the lungs, the kidneys and the heart may all be involved.
The cause of this disorder, like SLE, is thought to be an auto-immune disease. Occasionally it may have an acute onset with rapid progression to an early death, but, more commonly, it is a slowly progressive disorder.
When the gullet or oesophagus is involved, the scarring causes obstruction and difficulty in swallowing.
Treatment is unsatisfactory and cortisone is of little benefit.
Polyarteritis Nodosa differs from the other collagen diseases in that it is rare and affects males three times as commonly as females. It may occur at any age.
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BED-WETTING – PSYCHOTHERAPY
Posted on May 12, 2009 under General health | No CommentIf the child or his parents show signs of marked emotional disturbance, referral to a psychiatrist is usually advisable and psychotherapy and counselling may be necessary.
The most effective treatment is some form of conditioning device. This is usually referred to as the “pad and bell”. There are different brands and they can be hired rather than bought.
The child lies on a special sheet which has electrodes connected to a loud bell. When the child wets, this allows the electric circuit to be completed and the buzzer sounds.
This should wake the child, who then gets up and finishes emptying the bladder. Eventually the child learns to wake under the stimulus of a full bladder before he wets. It may take three months or so for regular dryness to be achieved.
In those cases where the enuresis is secondary to disorders of the kidneys or bladder, attention to the problem usually results in eventual control of the bed-wetting.
Some parents become obsessive over toilet training of their children and some attempt to get the child to control bowels and bladder at around nine months. It is worth remembering that where toilet training is left to later, say around two, children learn quicker than those started earlier.
This may be because the child’s bladder and nervous system are more mature and also because the parents are less obsessive and provoke less anxiety in the child.
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YOUR CANCER YOUR LIFE – RIGHTS IN REGARD TO RESEARCH (INTRODUCTION)
Posted on May 12, 2009 under Cancer | No CommentCancer research is necessary if we are to find out more about all aspects of cancer. It is quite likely that you will be asked to take part in some type of research. You need to know what your rights are in this regard.
Some research simply involves gathering facts. For example, if a researcher is trying to find the cause of the particular type of cancer that you have, you could be asked to complete a questionnaire asking about all sorts of past experiences, such as exposure to chemicals and drugs, your dietary history, previous illnesses, where you have lived and worked and so on.
Some research involves developing new tests or forms of treatment. You could be asked to undergo a new type of test which is not normally done. This would mean that they would not be sure what the results of the test mean and these results would not be of any use to your practitioner in planning your treatment. You could be asked to undergo a new form of treatment, perhaps with new drugs or a dosage or combination of drugs which is not standard. At this stage, I will just detail what your rights include in any type of research.
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