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Posted on Mar 24, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction |
Less is more in terms of jewellery, perfume and make-up. The circumstances, climate, venue and time of day will determine what you wear. Remember our tip about dressing the same level or only one level above. It really works. Avoid a business look unless you are going straight from work to the rendezvous. Even so, you need to lighten and loosen the business look a little.
Colour works for or against you. Black, grey, dark brown are all aloof colours. They give you control but don’t tell him much about you. Many women use black as a constant cover-up. It is sophisticated and alluring when you have some skin showing, but not, for day wear, very welcoming.
The styles you choose should be flattering and a little sensual. Show some skin, just not too much. What you wear, more than what he wears sets the scene. If you prefer slacks, wear them. If you prefer a short skirt, wear it. Realise the more skin you show, on arms, legs, body, thighs and even feet, the more sexually inviting you appear. You don’t have to go to the other extreme, just leave some mystery for the next encounter. Let your femininity shine through.
Here are some grooming tips to help you:
* Be careful with your perfume. Most men like some, but don’t put on too much. It is better to apply it on your body lightly before getting dressed rather than on wrists and neck.
« If you use hair spray, choose a brand with very little or no scent. It adds too much if you are already wearing perfume. Your hair must look relaxed and even touchable. Hair that moves is alluring to men.
* Wear a deodorant. I
* Brush the stray hairs off your shoulders before meeting your friend. If your hair is long, don’t fiddle with it as you speak.
* Men admire women who wear subtle make-up. Enhance your eyes, your lips and your skin and never apply foundation thickly. Attempting to cover up freckles and lines doesn’t work.
* Have immaculate nails which are not too long. Men like refined, natural and well-shaped nails, so bright reds and oranges are out.
* Choose clothes which fit you properly. No bursting buttons or skirts you know are too tight or too big.
* Check your bra strap isn’t showing and that you don’t have to adjust your straps in front of him.
* Men don’t like jewellery junkies. If your preferred style is to wear a lot of jewellery we don’t want to change you. Just limit the number for the first date. It is more important that you are the focus – not the jewellery. Invest in quality. If you wear large earrings cut back on the other jewellery.
• Check the appearance of your stockings, and their coordination with your shoes and hemline.
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Posted on Mar 24, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction |
Your relationship may be month or years old. Don’t give up on appearance and good grooming. Keep looking your best and take the trouble to present yourself well at all times, not only when you go out as a couple. There is nothing surer to sour the romance than you not taking pride in your appearance. You would also be telegraphing to your lover and the world, that you are taking the relationship for granted. Slop around at weekends when that’s appropriate. Everyone loves to relax wearing really comfortable clothes. Keep an eye on how your partner presents at these times. Tatty or neat? Make a compromise gesture so you both feel at ease.
When you have a special time planned for your partner, dress up. Imagine you are in the romancing and courting phase again. When you are on show as a couple don’t always wear conservative or very neutral coloured clothing. Be adventurous occasionally. Look to put some zing in your life. Develop the adventurous spirit by thinking about gifts of accessories and contemporary clothing for yourself and your lover. Keep up to date with what’s happening in fashion and hair styling. This process will allow you to see the world and your relationship
Your relationship may be months or years old. Don’t give up on through contemporary eyes. The saddest path is for both of you to become more and more conservative in your appearance and behaviour. Polishing up your appearance is uplifting to your spirit and your sensuality.
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Posted on Mar 24, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction |
Your choice of underwear is one of the strongest indicators of your sensuality and your emotionally romantic state. We have interviewed owners and assistants in lingerie boutiques, men’s and women’s underwear suppliers, and interested male and female participants to arrive at an appraisal of what we call the intimate Colour and Sensuality Quotient (CSQ). This completely new concept will have you thinking carefully about what you wear each day, and when you want to be sensual and seductive. To determine the male
CSQ we spent long hours examining and discussing men’s underpants in shops and with manufacturers. We compared 20 pairs of underpants, all of different colours and styles to consider the sensuality quotients. To test our theories, we spoke to many women about our findings. Everyone’s imagination ran riot.
Looking at women’s underwear took even longer because there are so many choices and combinations possible. Again we examined dozens of examples of women’s underwear. We sought opinions from men, and then we got the facts from buyers who told us what women buy for themselves, and what men buy for women.
The CSQ appraisal is based on the reaction of men to women’s underwear – colours, fabrics and styles,- and women’s reaction to men’s underwear colours, fabrics and styles. The CSQ can be sobering. You might think you are putting on sensual, attractive underwear, and discover, when you do the CSQ quiz, that you score only 4 out of 10.
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Posted on Mar 24, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction |
There are some important points to be considered as you do your own CSQ quiz:
•A score of 7 or more out of 10 means you are wearing sensual underwear.
• You don’t have to wear some of the top scoring styles if they don’t suit your body shape. You can still be very sensual without achieving the perfect 10.
•Underwear and clothes aren’t everything. You could have a score of 9 for your CSQ and yet not be sensually seductive because of your body language or conversation. Be sure the three mix well.
•Women who prefer cotton can stay with it for most days, and introduce one sexy underwear combination with some polyester or lycra with a cotton gusset, for special occasions.
• Tomato or true red is the colour of sex: blatant sex. If provocative sex is what you desire, choose it. This colour is associated with eroticism, striptease, prostitution and one-night stands. It you desire the passion and lust associated with red, plus some control, choose a slightly deeper red such as burgundy or a red wine colour.
• Styles, fashion and fabrics change so quickly. Whatever appears in the future will still fit the stereotype of sensual underwear. CSQ hasn’t changed in centuries. It is, after all about skin, concealment, colour and texture.
• For men’s CSQ we have only included underpants. Women don’t regard singlets as sexy. You may look good in a skimpy top teamed with underpants but for CSQ reasons we can’t count it.
•CSQ is important for men’s underwear. However in our society it’s women’s underwear which is regarded as being more sensual. The undressing of a woman’s body is usually a more provocative process for a man than for a woman.
• Very few men or women dress sensually every day. On practical days, your score could be a 3. Our CSQ is for those special times when you know you want to be confident in your sexiness and sensuality. We can promise you though , once on you though, once you begin working out your CSQ on a daily basis, it will strongly influence your underwear purchases forever.
• Have fun shopping for sensual underwear.
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Posted on Mar 11, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction |
Your diet should provide you with sufficient protein to keep your tissues in good repair, sufficient calories to give you all the energy you need (which is about 9210 k-joules (2200 kcal) each day), but which avoids too much cholesterol, too much animal fat, and too much sugar. You should also eat fresh vegetables and try and buy fresh fruit, rather than buying expensive vitamin tablets which you probably do not need, unless you have been ill. You should eat wholemeal bread in preference to ‘plastic’, pappy, white bread, because the fibre in bread (and in vegetables too) will help you avoid becoming constipated, a condition which seems to affect many old people. You should eat cheese or drink milk (which can be mixed in foods or other drinks – you do not have to drink it ‘raw’ unless you want to) to provide extra calcium which is needed to prevent osteoporosis.
You can do all these things quite easily without making much change to your eating habits, unless you are so poor that you cannot afford the foods, or so ill, or incapacitated, that you cannot go out and shop for them. If this happens, there are community-based helping agencies, such as Meals-on-Wheels, who will make life easier for you.
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Posted on Mar 11, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction |
In this situation the man may seek an extramarital relationship, often with a younger woman, whom he perceives as having the qualities his wife lacks. (Why younger women should agree to, or encourage, sexual relationships with an older man is not clear: it may be because of a Freudian father-fixation, or because the older man is more experienced, or because older men are fair game and the relationship will bring financial and perhaps social rewards.) As the relationship evolves, it reassures the man that he is still sexually attractive, that he is not becoming impotent, and that someone demonstrably believes him to be important. The new relationship gives him an exciting sexual experience, but this is not the main reason for it. More importantly, the relationship increases the man’s self-esteem. He feels wanted and important.
This feeling, together with the firm, warm body of his lover, may cause the man to make comparisons between her and his wife. He may perceive his wife to be sexually unattractive, despite the fact that in reality she may be a better, more skilful lover.
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Posted on Mar 11, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction |
These insidious developments are largely (but not completely) avoided by adequate treatment of the initial infection. Treatment is to avoid all sexual intercourse until the symptoms have disappeared, and for four to six weeks after that. In addition antibiotics, especially ‘broad-spectrum’ antibiotics such as tetracycline are prescribed.
During the treatment and for six weeks after it has been completed the man has to avoid drinking alcohol as this seems to increase the resistance of the disease to cure.
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Posted on Mar 11, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction |
Occasional ejaculatory incompetence is of no consequence. It may even make for sexual joy, provided the partners are able to talk to each other about it. Persistent ejaculatory incompetence is a sexual dysfunction, although surprisingly, many of the men can climax if the woman stimulates the penis with her fingers or mouth. In other men, the anxiety about being unable to ejaculate creates such a mental conflict that they either avoid sex or become impotent.
Some men with ejaculatory incompetence have had a particularly rigid upbringing with a dominant mother whose stern religious views that sex is dirty were stressed repeatedly throughout their childhood. This adverse background is usually overcome by later, more realistic attitudes towards sex, but a few men remain frozen in their childhood view of sex. This attitude may be reinforced by a traumatic sexual experience in adult life, which confirms in the man’s mind that sex is unpleasant.
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